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Cherries & Cream: So You Want To Have A Threesome…

  • First of all, congrats! You and your partner have agreed to try something beautiful and new. It’s very exciting to add a new experience with your partner to your repertoire. Now that you have made the decision to venture into something that can be a unique and powerful experience, we wanted to give you a few tips to make sure that your threesome is enjoyable, passionate and of course, drama free.

    - Tip 1: Do not use a friend.
    Yes it may seem like a good idea to bring in someone who you are familiar with and have an attraction to, but your partner probably will not feel the same way. You should both pick the person that you bring into your sex life. It is best to use someone that neither of you have a history with. It keeps everything in the encounter light and decreases the post-threesome drama.

    - Tip 2: Do not use your bed
    This is perhaps the mistake that people make the most. Bringing another party into your bed is an uncomfortable and uneasy feeling. You should pick another location, like a hotel or maybe even their domain, but let your bed remain sacred and for the two of you.

    - Tip 3: Do not lose focus
    On your partner of course. It will be great and exhilarating to have a new person and try new things, but never lose sight of your partner and their needs. You should always make sure that the primary attention is on your actual partner. Remember that the additional person is a side dish and not the main course.

    - Tip 4: Set the mood
    The more comfortable the environment, the better the experience. Music, candles, sexy sheets etc can help ease some of the general uneasiness.

    - Tip 5: Live in the moment
    Have you ever heard the phrase “When in Rome…”? Well it definitely applies to this experience. Let go, let your inhibitions go and enjoy yourself. Don’t worry about the aftermath. Take the time to savor the beautiful, sensual experience you are creating with your partners at the moment.

    Of course the most important rule of any of these is to protect yourself, your mate and whatever third party you are using.

    A threesome can be one of the best experiences you ever have, so use the tips above and throw in a few of your own and take your relationship to new heights! Feel free to let us know how it went…we’ll show you ours if you show us yours!

    - Brandi Hunter

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