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Are Women Looking For Real Love Or Mr. Perfect?

  • Building a solid relationship takes time, and most importantly, effort. Can you build a house if you do not put in hard work? NO! The same applies to building a good relationship; putting in hard work and sometimes extra work. Women say they want real love, but how many of them want just that? At 18, it’s okay to dream of Mr. Perfect, but after women hit the age 30, it is time to put away the hopes and dreams of finding for Mr. Perfect, and face reality by focusing on finding Mr. Right.

    Almost all women are searching to find Mr. Perfect. Who is Mr. Perfect? Mr. Perfect is that man who has it all. The perfect career, the charming personality, perfect height, perfect smile and build, family oriented, perfect wardrobe, romantic, and has all the right moves in the bedroom. The only problem with Mr. Perfect is that he does not exist. If everything was perfect, there is no room for growth. Nowadays, women spend too much time singing the same sad song about how they need love, but are quick to criticize every flaw in a man. He does not make enough money, he has bad credit, he does not own a car, he still lives at home, he has children, and he does not dress good. If love is all women want, then why is it so hard to find? The answer to that is love cannot be found if women only see the wrong. When does the good get notice?

    Women must throw out that long wish list and get rid of those ridiculous expectations on finding the perfect man. More women should concentrate on being with someone who compliments them. This does not mean settle, but be with someone on your level. Don’t always expect that six figure income man to come sweep you away and give you that fairytale life. It does not work that way, especially if you’re not a six figure income woman. He might just ask himself, why should he be with you? What do you have to offer? What can you bring to the table? Love is definitely out there, and anyone can find it. But unfortunately, some women will never find it unless they start opening up, and stop being condescending to the opposite sex, especially if they’re equal. Sure most women want a “Mr. Big” just like Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City, but think realistically for a moment – no one’s life is a television show.

    True love is finding a man that peaks your interest. If he has most of the qualities you desire, but lacks in other areas, help him, communicate with him and grow as one with him, especially if he knows how to love, and treats women like they should be treated. Do not walk away from the situation because he’s not Mr. Big. At the end of the day ladies, you must ask yourself, are you looking for love, or Mr. Perfect?

    - K-Lyric

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    January 4th, 2012 | Mara | 2 Comments |

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  • SUGA RAY 01.04.2012

    A great read! Some may read but not comment because it speaks to them. It hurts. But such is the truth. It hurts. But the truth shall set you free!

    I enjoyed this!

    Continued Succes,
    Suga Ray

  • BERT PITT

    Glad someone knows wassup!!! #Salute